
My goals for 2024 are different. I want to focus much more on having a positive mindset this year rather than having X number of books published, reading X number of books, or losing X number of inches off my waistline. I want to focus on the here-and-now rather than dwelling on negative things in the past, which admittedly consumed me a lot last year. I want to make positive changes to the things I can control and accept the things I can’t (and doing so without regret would be good too). I want to spend more time out of my head and in reality with people I care about and not slip into a negative mindset focusing on bad things that have happened.
Mental health is important. Lots of folks say to me “I don’t know how you write when you have a little one/ work full-time, etc”. In the past I joked, “caffeine and insomnia”. This year I don’t even have that excuse as I’ve drastically reduced my coffee intake, switching to brewing fresh herbal tea with fresh leaves. Truth is, my productivity (writing/publishing) last year kept me focused and stopped my anxiety from spiralling out of control. I chose to ignore the bad things and instead write, write, write.
This year, I choose to deal with the bad things, not go into a deadlock about what to do. If that means a slower literary output, while I take action on other areas, so be it. The mind and body are one thing; taking care of my mental health is just as important as my physical health. We need a balance of both in order to do anything. That’s a good start to aim for!
